Progress Continues

Once again, it has been a while since my last post. Life has been comparatively busy and continues to go very well!

I did the second part of my presentation to the local radio club as planned. It ran about 40 minutes, similar to the first part. Again it was very well received and I thoroughly enjoyed it! I was asked to give a presentation on the same topic for a different club, an opportunity I eagerly accepted. I had to combine and shorten it to under 60 minutes. I was a bit nervous about this. I had never been to a meeting of that club before, and didn’t know most of the people. It went exceptionally well and once again, was a lot of fun! I enjoy public speaking! Imagine that!?

I dined at a restaurant with my DLS worker twice. The first time I had a bit of an incident. I hadn’t completely understood some of the options the waitperson had given on a food choice, and my blundering response made it clear I hadn’t understood this simple thing. I had serious sleep and thought disruption in the days that followed, and it was eroding my newly found confidence in other areas. I decided this needed to be dealt with. The only potential solution was also a risk: go back and repeat the experience. The second time went without a hitch, and there have been no repercussions.

I have been looking for opportunities to try new things and continue the progress I have been making. There isn’t much going on this time of year, so opportunities are somewhat limited. I went to a bake sale being held by a local organization as a fund raiser. This was the first time in my life that I managed to do something like that alone. I had only done it a couple of times with someone else. The last time was nearly 20 years ago and I was on the verge of outright panic even though not alone. While it may seem a very simple thing, doing this on my own was a major accomplishment and milestone for me!

I have begun using a debit card at stores where I have not previously done so. I have not sought nor required support with this. I’m doing it on my own.

I have had several phone conversations with friends, as well as outgoing business calls. I have been answering calls from private numbers (no caller ID) instead of letting the machine pick up to see who it is. I have also been talking on the ham radio using voice instead of Morse code. These are all things I wouldn’t have dreamed of doing a few months ago. I might have had nightmares about them, but didn’t dream I would be doing them!

Oh yes… and I managed to lose 20 pounds! I feel great!

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One Response to Progress Continues

  1. nadiasul says:

    Hi Paul,
    Things have been busy for me too and I haven´t had time to write here at all!But I wanted to let you know I am following your new entries and though again I don´t have time now I have a couple fo things I´ll try to write quickly, the main one is a small comment about your restaurant experience: I believe all of us (even the normal ones!) do something a little bit off now and then. I mean, just look around and notice people and you´ll notice it. I remember for instance my husband – a “normal” guy with none of our issues! – was once a bit rude to a sales person because he misunderstood what that person said. Another time something similar happened because he didn´t hear a sales person addressing him (his hearing is not great). Just recently I felt very embarrassed at a store because I was so tired I wasn´t able to respond properly to a comment the cashier made. I managed then to tell him I was sorry but i was too tired and my head wasn´t working very well that day due to all the holiday stress, and then he said he totally understood because he felt the same! I guess my point is nobody is perfect all the time even the best of us so don´t worry about a small misstep here and there, I don´t think they ever really disappear completely for anybody! And congrats on going back to the restaurant after that experience by the way, again I guess that´s what people in general do too, just go on without making too much out of the times things don´t work that well.
    Best wishes and have a Merry Christmas!
    Nadia

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